Want Your Relationship to Last???

These last couple of days, I’ve been watching lots of series (love stories and stories about love) and reading lots of books (doesn’t sound much like me, but it’s true) (special mention for the one by Cuellar). These stories don’t all have happy endings (sad endings are cruel, but stay longer in by mind and heart – more touching), but still interesting enough to satisfy my fantasy. *dreaming out of this normal and passive world*

Here are some theories and advices I want to share with you (a better understanding about women and love):

How your man acts when he’s not around you is probably more important than how he does when he’s with you. Always look at both sides of the coin.

 

Love doesn’t come with a price tag.

 

The good ones (your other half) always pick you up when you fall; the great ones don’t let you fall at all.

 

Not everything we see should be believed and not everything we believe can be seen. It’s okay to trust people, but be sure to cut the deck.

 

A good man keeps his promises even if it takes a lifetime.

 

Women by definition equal confusion.

 

Women want it all or none of it. They want to be understood, but not typecast; they want to be happy, but allowed to be sad; they want companionship, but don’t need someone to be happy; they want honesty, but seldom the truth; they want equality, while being placed on a pedestal; and most of all they want respect.

 

Men can’t figure women out because they are a masterpiece in progress.

 

A woman doesn’t grow old; she just gets better.

 

Men do a lot of hearing and not enough listening.

Listen till the blood drips from your ears; listen until you want to scream out a solution; listen until she has nothing left to say; and when she’s done, shut up and listen some more.

 

A woman is a fire. Want to keep her burning? You have to fan the flames. You do that with hugs.

 

A woman can forgive a lot of things, but she won’t put a snake in the grass liar. I repeat, a woman can forgive anything, but she will not allow herself to be disrespected. Lie to a woman and you are dissing her.

 

A woman wants stability, balance and a sense of order. She wants someone she can rely on. The hardest thing for men is to differentiate between support and total control.

 

Love them. Love them most of all. Let it all out. Let it all out every day, every minute of every second of every day.

 

What do women want? They just want to be happy. They just have a different way of showing it. Learn their language; listen when you’d rather speak; hug instead of walk away; tell the truth until it hurts; be a man she can depend on; and love her like you love yourself.

Two can be as bad as one or being with someone else can be as bad as being by yourself.

Two may be less lonely, but two doesn’t equal to joy.

 

If you do allow yourself to get to know and fall in love with the person inside first, I guarantee the book cover won’t matter.

 

Conclusion: You have to be clear with your thoughts/ideas/desires. Do you just want to have a house, or a home. Anyway, who am I to say? I’m the one who’s never been in a relationship…