I just noticed that I’m a very complicated girl, different from others. I don’t like to play around with relationships. If I ever fall in love, go out with someone, it is because I know my feelings and want to be with that person for the rest of my days. It might be a strong word to say “forever”, but I really hope that it could happen to me (still dreams about those fairytales). I couldn’t understand those who play “one night stand” and never will. I think that is my biggest problem and the reason why I’m not seeing anybody. It is a question of security… Thus, the man of my life should respond to the following criteria (not obligated to have all, but the more is better) for me to consider him as perfect.
Physical requirements:
Ø Nationality - Asian (preferably a person who can understand Cantonese, so he can watch TVB series with me)
Ø Height - Not too tall (just a little bit higher than me with my hills, so around 155-160 cm)
Ø Weight - Not anorexic or obese
Ø Age - Not too old nor too young (max 4 years older or 2 years younger)
Ø Posture - sit and stand up straight (don’t look like a shrimp)
Ø Style - Have a good style (no hip hop, funky, rap, rock, … better if classic, casual, …)
Ø Sent - Have to smell good naturally, even without perfume
Ø Hygiene – look clean (no greasy hair, no long nails, nothing between nails, no beard unless its charming, no visible nose hair, no visible ear hair, brush teeth every morning and night, …)
Personality requirements:
Ø Faithful (doesn’t cheat on me)
Ø No impulsive drinking, gambling, and smoking (drug is the worst)
Ø Gallant (open doors, pull chair, …)
Ø Polite (doesn’t swear in public areas, better if doesn’t swear at all)
Ø Healthy ( I would like to be the first to die)
Ø Like children (thought of having 1 boy and 1 girl)
Ø Like animals (2 dogs – a Chihuahua and a Boston terrier or a Yorkshire)
Ø In order (don’t want to always be behind him to wrap his mess. I like all my things to be clean and in their place)
Ø Know how to behave in public
Ø Not cheap (pay for diners and gifts, but let me treat once in a while)
Ø Have good memories (remember all things that I say and not making me repeat myself)
Ø Sweet and careful (meticulous)
Ø On time (not late for a rendez-vous, especially with me)
Ø Trustworthy (no lying, have to have a good communication with me)
Ø Same interests
Ø Connections (know what I need and when I need)
So… it is not that bad, right? If I don’t find someone satisfying, I prefer staying alone. I won’t pick someone randomly (even if I’m really tired of being alone and want a shoulder to lie on) just because all my friends have a partner.
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